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FAQ’s WITH MISTRESS LIZZY
Frequently Asked Questions About Sessions with Dominatrix Miss Lizzy
Are you happy to see beginners?
Yes. Newbies are welcome, as long as you’re respectful, open to guidance, and honest about your experience level. We’ll start with a calm chat, agree boundaries and safewords, and build intensity at a pace that suits you. If you’re nervous, that’s normal — you’ll be looked after.
What do you offer in sessions?
Mistress Lizzy sessions focus on consensual BDSM, fetish and power exchange. That can include latex and rubber fetish, bondage (including heavier restraint where appropriate), impact play, humiliation/objectification themes, roleplay, tease/denial dynamics, and other agreed kinks. Your session is designed around your interests, limits, and the style of control you respond to. (If you want something niche, ask — compatibility matters.)
What don’t you offer?
I won’t do anything that isn’t explicitly agreed, safe, and compatible with my boundaries and your wellbeing. I’m clear about “hard limits” activities for safety and personal reasons — plese do not ask for anything on my hard limits list.
How does the booking process work?
Read the website so you understand my style and what I offer.
Send an application/enquiry with the details requested.
If I accept, I may ask a few follow-up questions to shape the session properly.
Once we agree the plan, date and tribute/fee, you’ll secure the booking with a deposit (where requested). Deposits are typically non-refundable and protect my time.
What should I include in my enquiry?
To be considered, include:
Your name/alias and age confirmation (see age policy below)
City (Manchester, Leeds, or London)
Preferred dates/times and session length
Your experience level
A short list of interests/kinks and hard limits
Any relevant health considerations (physical or psychological)
Clear, respectful enquiries get priority.
How much notice do you need?
Please don’t message expecting a same-day appointment. As a general rule, I don’t take last-minute bookings and I may require a minimum notice period depending on city and availability. (If you’re travelling, tell me early.)
Where do sessions take place?
I session in Manchester, Leeds and London, using appropriate private spaces depending on the session requirements. On occasion I tour different locations in the UK and Europe, check my availablity and tour pages for more information. Some play needs a properly equipped environment; other sessions can work in a suitable private setting. I’ll confirm location details once your booking is accepted. (Hotel outcalls may be considered where appropriate.)
Do you tour or travel?
Yes — travel may be possible for longer bookings, with appropriate notice and travel costs covered. If you want a specific date in a specific city, ask early and be organised.
What is “tribute” / your fee — and is it negotiable?
My tribute/fee reflects session length, complexity, and requested kinks. It is not negotiable. If you’re not in a position to book, you can enquire about other ways to serve (where offered).
Do you require a deposit?
Often, yes. Deposits confirm commitment and reserve your slot, and are generally non-refundable. Rescheduling policies depend on notice given and my availability. I ususaly request a 50% deposit to book and the rest is required one week before your session.
What’s your cancellation/rescheduling policy?
If you cancel late, you should expect to lose your deposit. If you need to reschedule, contact me as soon as you know — the more notice you give, the more likely I can accommodate you. I follow a practical approach where possible for rescheduling.
How should I prepare for a session?
Arrive clean, sober, and on time (not early, not late). Good hygiene matters: freshly showered, teeth brushed, no overpowering fragrance. If your session includes activities that require extra preparation, I’ll tell you what’s needed in advance. Please ensure you have eaten and are hydrated before you arrive at the session.
Will we use safewords?
Always. We agree safewords/signals before play begins, and you are expected to use them responsibly. I also check in and read body language, especially with newcomers.
Do you offer aftercare?
Yes of course, where it’s appropriate and wanted. Aftercare might be a calm wind-down, water, grounding conversation, and a brief debrief so you leave feeling steady and positive.
Do you see clients of all genders / orientations?
Yes. Respect and compatibility matter far more than labels to me. As a professional domme I explicitly welcome diverse genders and expressions. I have a zeo tolerance policy for discrimination of any kind.
Do you do couples or group sessions?
Sometimes, yes — if it’s a good fit, clearly planned, and everyone understands the dynamic. Couples exploring kink can be a great match when communication is solid.
Can I bring a gift?
Gifts are appreciated but never a substitute for tribute/fees. Thoughtful items (especially fetish-adjacent) are often welcomed, and if you want to bring something specific, ask first. You can check my Throne Wishlist for ideas for gifts (link in footer)
Can I take photos or record?
Only with explicit permission agreed in advance. I ususaly take a few pictures and short video clips for my subs during the session as a “keepsake” to take home and enjoy after the session is done, however this will always be agreed upon in advance.
Is confidentiality guaranteed?
Your privacy is taken seriously. I don’t share identifying information, and I expect the same respect from you. Do not attempt to “out” me, do not attempt to doxx, and do not contact me through personal channels not provided for booking.
Do you allow intox play (poppers)?
If you use poppers, you must disclose it in advance. In general, I require clients to arrive sober (no alcohol or drugs) and able to consent clearly. Any substance use that compromises consent or safety is a hard no. (Your safety comes before fantasy.)
What about riskier kinks like breathplay?
Some activities carry elevated risk and require extra screening, discussion, and strict boundaries. If you’re asking for breathplay or similarly high-risk play, expect a more cautious approach — and be prepared for me to decline if I’m not satisfied it can be done safely. (No exceptions.)
What age do I need to be to book?
You must be a consenting adult. I prefer 21+ for in-person sessions and will not engage with anyone underage. (If adult content is illegal to view where you live, do not access this site.)
I’ve never booked a domme before — what’s the biggest etiquette rule?
Be respectful, be direct, and be honest. Read the site, follow instructions, don’t haggle, don’t waste time, and don’t push boundaries. If you do that, you’ll find I’m warm, professional, and extremely good at what I do.






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Use the contact form to apply for a session. Tell me what you crave — and I’ll decide how you’ll earn it.